Last Night Ray-J showed his azz on his reunion show, first he tells Jaguar he regrets letting her go then he goes at Cocktail. I for one thought it was funny but the Internet is saying Ray was wrong for calling Cocktail a bish. I disagree she was acting like one and if he slapped her then I could roll with that statement. I know we would like to say that a man should never ever disrespect a woman but respect starts with us. If we don’t respect ourselves in the first place how can you expect a man to show some respect and lets be real I watch Maury everyday and I tell you there are some ho’s in these world. Women can do the most disrespectful stuff to themselves and see nothing wrong with it. Now I do feel he was wrong for playing Mz Berry but a man can do only what you let him do so hopefully she wakes up and smells the coffee. But no, I don’t care that he smashed the homies because they let him. The bragged about it on TV like it was cute. I don’t feel bad for any woman who is ho playing herself and gets called on it. If we as women don’t respect ourselves then we should not expect men to do it. I don’t feel bad for cocktail and really wish we as women will wake up and realize man have emotions as well as we do. When we get mad we say some of the most hurtful things towards our spouse but when they call us a bish they wasn’t raised right.